Behind The Wish - Whitney Williamson

Meet Whitney Williamson - who has been instrumental in delivering wishes to Perth children since 2011.

Seeing a primary school classmate receive a wish helped Whitney decide to join Make-A-Wish.

Behind The Wish is our series of inspirational reads diving into the everyday superheroes involved in creating life-changing wishes.

BROAD FOCUS

Caring for the climate

I work in renewable energy for Synergy, our electricity provider here in Perth. I work in community engagement, so it’s my job to understand what the community wants.

I see myself as a conduit between the community and the provider developing wind farms, solar farms, and batteries to ensure the community gets what they want.

My previous work was in public transport, building rail infrastructure which is obviously pretty important too for a sustainable environment.

My main driver for working in those fields is that I am doing a job that is contributing to society.

One of the areas that needs the most attention at the moment is climate change. I would like there to be a world still in a couple of generations' time.

FUNDRAISING

Reaching new heights for fundraising

I am pretty blessed to have a healthy body and I feel really fortunate for that, so I want to make sure I stay healthy for as long as possible.

The other motivation to exercise is mental health because I also want to stay mentally strong.

I ran a half-marathon for Make-A-Wish a couple of years back. That’s the only one I have done, so I wouldn’t call myself a good runner but I am a runner.

I started doing 5km runs to get myself into it. I started with Frank (my staffy dog) but he bailed pretty quickly!

I like to challenge myself, so when I looked at the 'City to Surf' run and saw that one of the charities I could nominate was Make-A-Wish, I thought that was a good fit, as I was already with my Make-A-Wish Branch. So I trained and went ahead and did a half-marathon, which is 21kms.

Recently I abseiled down the tallest building in Perth (pictured).

It’s called Central Park, the current name on it is Rio Tinto. I have abseiled down it before to raise money for another charity and this time I did it to raise money for the four different Synergy charities.

I like to constantly be striving for something.

JOINING UP

School memory the impetus for Whitney to volunteer

I joined Make-A-Wish in 2011 when I was 21 years old.

I was working for a stockbroking firm which was not giving me the fulfilment I needed and, as I have discovered, it’s important for me to do a job that’s contributing to society.

I needed to do something that was giving back to society.

I started looking at homeless shelters or soup kitchens I could volunteer my time to.

Then I started thinking of not-for-profits and I remembered when I was at primary school, one of my very good friends got a wish. And her wish was to go to the Gold Coast. And I remember the impact that had and still has on her family.

Sadly, she passed away, but I still speak to her mum and they still have that really special family memory from the Gold Coast.

I knew the impact a wish can have – even decades later - so I thought I should be a part of Make-A-Wish.

FIRST WISH

'You should never judge someone'

I remember the first wish I was involved in. It was a party and they needed some extra hands.

I was not that long out of high school, 21 or so, and it was a birthday party for a girl who was in foster care and she kept on asking, ‘Where’s my sister? When is she coming?’

And then her sister arrived and it was a girl I went to school with. And she was a girl that had a lot of struggles in school and it just put everything into perspective for me.

It just made me realise you never really know what’s happening in someone’s life.

You should never judge someone because you don’t know what they are going home to or what their life is like.

I think that’s one of the things Make-A-Wish does to me, it gives perspective.

You might be driving on the freeway and someone cuts in front of you. You might be really annoyed at that person and you might assume they are a terrible person. But you don’t know where they are speeding off to. You don’t know anything about their story or their journey.

Being a part of Make-A-Wish gives you so much more empathy for everyone, including strangers who cut you off in traffic and you may never meet.

Make-A-Wish also puts your life into perspective. There will be days when I am like ‘I can’t believe my car service cost me that much’ and you start thinking about all these things going wrong but then you go to a wish and your problems melt away because what you are going through is nothing compared to what the wish family you have met is going through.

When you walk into that room, you represent the wish. You will hear, ‘Oh mum, the Make-A-Wish people are here!’ You represent pure joy, excitement, and possibility.

The wish is something that makes everything else appear insignificant.

BRANCH

Whitney's three pillars of volunteering

My first role in the Branch was PR Coordinator, which is now communications. I have been President. I am currently Communications Coordinator and Volunteer Care Coordinator.

I was also the state representative for the President’s Representative Committee, which met twice a year.

At the end of the day, I just want to grant as many wishes as possible. And to do that you need to fundraise. Fundraising is not for everyone, but you just contribute to the Branch when and how you can.

For me there are three pillars to being a volunteer. There is obviously the wishes and that’s the fun part, there is the fundraising so we can grant wishes, and then there’s promoting Make-A-Wish which is important as the more people who know what we are doing, the better.

There are some misconceptions that I try and correct. A lot of people think Make-A-Wish grants wishes for dying children and that’s a problem because it stops people applying for a wish. It’s a huge issue if a child is eligible for a wish but the parents think their child is not dying so they won’t get a wish.

People say you’re so good for volunteering and I am like, ‘I grant wishes for kids’. It’s not exactly like I am building a house or planting trees. It’s fun.

When you are in the volunteering space, you realise that you’re not special or anything because you are surrounded by so many generous people. They say you should surround yourself with people you want to be like, right? That’s what is good about Make-A-Wish.

There was one Perth Branch up until a couple of years ago, whereas now we have three branches.

We have got people who have been in the Branch for 30 years. That’s really special.

But the thing I think makes the Perth Central Branch special – and the other Perth branches – is that everyone contributes and everyone is open to other people’s opinions. It’s really collaborative. It feels like family. These people have watched me go from a 21-year-old to a 34-year-old. They have been a part of my entire adult life.

There was a time when I wanted to go travelling and I was thinking, 'Do I leave Make-A-Wish or put it on hold for a bit?' And I realised I don’t know who I am without Make-A-Wish.

It’s such a huge part of my life. It’s part of my identity. It’s the thing that adds value to my life. So, I just couldn’t imagine stopping.

LEVI'S WISH

The smile Whitney will never forget

Levi’s wish was really special. Levi is joy in a person. He’s just a beautiful human being, and so is his mum. And anyone who steps inside Levi’s world can’t help but feel his aura.

His smile is so genuine and contagious. Literally, I get goosebumps thinking about him.

It was a really special wish because it required the community to come together for it.

He got a cubby house. He had accessibility needs so he had to have a special cubby house where he could enter with his wheelchair and a special swing that he could swing on and be safe. It wasn’t necessarily easy for head office to find the right cubby house that would suit.

Because Levi (pictured) was non-verbal and had minimal mobility in his arms and legs, sensory things are important to him and that’s where he gets a lot of joy - from touching.

The Augusta community my Nan lives in donated fabrics to her that were leftover and sensory.

My nan then made this beautiful wall hanging for inside the cubby that Levi could touch and stroke.

Some of them were crinkly and made noises when touched.

There were some signs we wanted to put up in the cubby, so one of our volunteers came with his drill and we put up a ‘Levi’s Cubby’ sign.

The family was just so grateful.

CELEBRITIES

Celebrity wishes hit the mark

Any wish I actually get to be there for, the reveal is memorable.

I recently did a wish for three 17-year-old boys who went to see some UFC fighters.

Those kinds of wishes are so special; you get to experience the moment, and you get to make sure the child gets exactly what they want.

With celebrity wishes, you always worry they are not going to get enough time with the celebrity. But every single time the wish kid will say, ‘I cannot believe that just happened, I got 20 minutes with Pink’ or ‘I got to have a photo with a Chelsea football player’.

Make-A-Wish always go to the effort to make it extra special. It’s not just the meet-and-greet, it’s getting the ticket to the concert, or organising for them to go to training before the game.

The Pink wish was special as during the concert, Pink actually called out to the wish child and dedicated the song to the wish child.

Another wish that’s special and a fun wish to talk about was a boy’s wish for a pet dinosaur.

When we first went to see him he was 4, so he was just old enough for a wish.

His mum asked what he wanted and he said, ‘A Ninja Turtle toy’ and his mum said, ‘I can get you that sweetie but maybe think a little more about what you want’ and then he said, ‘I want a pet dinosaur’ and we thought, 'Oh no, this won't be an easy wish!'

But there’s this thing called a pleo, which is an animatronic pet dinosaur toy. It’s basically a robot and has artificial intelligence, it bonds with whoever it first sees. It is just this incredible piece of technology. It just feels like you have your own puppy.

So we were like, ‘You are going to get your wish but it’s going to take some time because we have to order it from the other side of the world’.

So for the anticipation phase, head office did all these amazing postcards. They photoshopped the dinosaur on different postcards. So it would be like he’s in Canada, or Paris, or the Middle East.

So every day this boy would run out to his letterbox and see if there was a postcard from the dinosaur.

When the day came for the dinosaur to arrive at the airport, the wish child went to the airport.

Qantas got on board and we gave the dinosaur to the pilots the day before. And when the pilot brought the dinosaur out of the plane and Make-A-Wish gave strict instructions to the pilot that when he hands the dinosaur over, he has to turn on the dinosaur’s button straight away.

The pilot walks out and the little boy is standing with his mum so he runs to the pilot but realises he may not be allowed in that area, so he runs back.

Then the pilot handed it over. The little boy thought it was a real dinosaur. We went back to the boy’s home to introduce the dinosaur – which I think he called Crunchie – to his new home and we ate dinosaur cupcakes.

Apparently on the car ride from the airport to their house he said to his mum, ‘Mum, I can’t believe my wish actually came true’.

I can’t believe everyone doesn’t volunteer for Make-A-Wish! I got to contribute towards making a child feel that way. That’s definitely one of my favourite wishes.

Wish Effect lasts a long time

What Make-A-Wish does is more than just the one day of the wish.

I think of Levi’s smile and his wish is so much more than a smile. I think there’s a reason we want a long anticipation phase and that’s because the anticipation is the important bit.

They get a Wish Coin and we tell them to take that coin into their medical appointment and think about their wish or imagine the moment they are on their wish.

The anticipation is really key but afterwards is important too. Like I said, my friend who had her wish two decades ago: the wish is still being felt by her family.

For me, it is so much more than smiles on faces. I believe that to help fight a physical illness, it’s extremely helpful to be mentally strong. And Make-A-Wish has nothing to do with illness.

Your wish has to be something completely separate from your illness. So, when you think about your wish, it has nothing to do with your illness. That is what helps build that mental resilience and that’s why I think an essential ingredient of a treatment plan should be a wish.

Putting in the effort provides joy

Make-A-Wish adds so much joy to my life.

I don’t know if with other volunteering opportunities you get to walk away thinking like there’s no other way you would rather spend your Sunday afternoon than organising that birthday party for that child.

And there are days when I don’t want to. There are days when I just want to stay in bed and don’t want to get up. But you drag yourself out of bed and go to a Make-A-Wish wish reveal.

And every single time I leave the wish saying to myself, ‘What was I thinking? That was amazing!’

I always feel the same. I cannot believe that I was feeling like I didn’t want to do that because I am now so full of energy and so full of joy. There’s nothing like giving a child a wish.

And if the event you are going to is a fundraising activity that’s also fulfilling. You’re around like-minded people, a bunch of selfless people, and they give you energy.

Make-A-Wish helps build skills, opens doors

I have got so many genuine, tangible benefits from volunteering for Make-A-Wish.

I started when I was 21. I started a degree in communications and at the same time became the Communications Coordinator for my Branch.

I managed a Facebook page and other things, so I already had experience in communications when I was applying for jobs, thanks to Make-A-Wish. So that was really tangible, it was a step above all the other graduates I was competing against.

Then I became Branch President, so at the age of 23 or whatever it was, I had management experience. I was managing a team of 50 volunteers. And if you think managing staff is hard, well you can’t fire volunteers!

That gave me incredible leadership experience I would never have got at such a young age.

But even more tangible than that, I met a fellow volunteer - who I am still very good friends with today - and she offered me an internship.

I then worked there for seven years and this person and that opportunity has been instrumental in my career and where I am today.

I don’t think I would be in this current job with this experience if it wasn’t for the opportunities Make-A-Wish has given me.

In fact, another volunteer I met really early on in Make-A-Wish, he’s been a more personal/professional mentor for the last decade. I think those two people have been so instrumental in the development of my career.

Wish joy felt by many

I think of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and basically the top one is giving back. I think there is a high that you get for doing something for someone for no other reason than just adding value to their life, or the world.

I think a wish has a ripple effect.

There’s the person who gets the wish and you hope gets the most out of it, then there’s their family who gets so much joy out of watching it unfold, and then there’s all their friends and family who might see or hear about it, then there’s the volunteers, and then there’s the suppliers who help make the wish happen.

All of these people feel the power of the wish to a different extent.

I think people assume being a Make-A-Wish volunteer is going to make you really sad at times. And I’ll be honest, every now and then it is.

But mostly it is not, that's because you represent the happiest thing happening in their lives at that time.

So many people say to me they couldn’t be a Make-A-Wish volunteer and I am a crier generally speaking but it’s not that bad. Sometimes not so good things happen, but when you’re at a wish with a family, it’s an overwhelmingly positive experience.

They say if you want something done, ask a busy person.

It’s the children that make you want to do things. If I look at everything on my plate, is it that I do some weeding or watch some TV, or is it doing Make-A-Wish?

What is more important than giving a sick child a wish?

Some people say they don’t have enough time to volunteer. And I say how much TV do you watch a week? And I’m not saying don’t watch TV, it’s just about priorities.

Make-A-Wish is part of who I am. It’s my identity. Even when I was travelling the world and wasn’t actively volunteering, I found myself talking about Make-A-Wish because it’s such a great charity.

People get funny about talking about the fact they do charity or do various things but I think you should be talking about those things. I want to promote Make-A-Wish and the more you talk about it, the more you normalise volunteering.

I think if you’re happy and healthy and have the time, it’s your duty to give back to people.

If you can, then you should. If more people did, the world would be a more beautiful place.

Whitney has been a proud volunteer since 2011